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3 Must Read Books on Cunnilingus

Just in time for New Years! It's the holidays, and you might still be thinking about gifts for that special person in your life. Well, books are a good way to show you care--and note how much you love making love with them. You want you both to have better sex, so maybe your partner would like to read an oral sex book together? On top of that, we had a great response for other 3 Books on Giving the Best Cunnilingus. GetLusty writer Stephanie Vanderwall brings you 3 of the best books on cunnilingus.

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When it comes to blowing a woman’s mind, these authors know what they’re talking about! So pick your favorite, study up, and try out some new tips and tricks on that lovely lady of yours.

#1 Oral Sex That’ll Blow Her Mind: An Illustrated Guide to Giving Her Amazing Orgasms

By Shanna Katz

You can’t be a superstar sex partner until you’ve mastered the subtle art of cunnilingus. For starters, you need to get your timing down, learn what licks feel good and how to be sure your partner is truly enjoying your efforts. Luckily, Oral Sex That’ll Blow Her Mind teaches all this and a whole lot more. Whether you’re just getting started or are practically an oral expert, this book has just what you need. It’s packed with tips and techniques to improve those tingling tongue moves and features tastefully erotic photos of positions perfect for oral pleasuring. Oral Sex That’ll Blow Her Mind is far more than a set of skills. It explains how cunnilingus helps you feel connected with your partner (whether you are the giver or the receiver) and how to enrich that experience.

“I really enjoyed this book. Not only was it interesting and informative, it had a really fun tone as well. The author was definitely enjoying herself when she wrote it. Or at least that’s the sense I get then I see a lot of fun alliteration. I appreciated that the book covered a lot of topics from the rank beginner to someone more experienced. I would highly recommend this book to anyone wanting to improve their oral sex technique.” –Amazon Customer

#2 The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus: How to Go Down on a Woman and Give Her Exquisite Pleasure

By Violet Blue, forward by Margaret Cho

This 2011 Independent Publisher Awards silver medalist is truly the bible of oral sex. The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus gives excellent advice, encouragement, and helpful instruction to those who want to expand their expertise or are simply curious about the art’s finer points. In her clear, concise, and informative text, sex educator Violet Blue provides step-by-step instructions for going down on a woman, as well as accurate and up-to-date information on female anatomy and sexual response.

In her friendly, witty tone, Blue dispatches fascinating facts and discusses games for lovers, positions, safety, and a variety of techniques; she also offers erotic book and DVD recommendations, and tips for effective communication during the act itself. Featuring helpful illustrations and erotica by sexpert Alison Tyler, this is the essential guide to going down.

Sex advice blogger Susie Bright raves: “Violet Blue’s cunnilingus book is the best sheer technique manual I’ve ever read on going down.”

“I think this is a great book. My husband and I never experimented in this area for many reasons...mostly my own insecurity. This book opened my eyes in all directions. If you are looking for a book to help you in this area it is a good one. I have hunted all over and this is by far the best one! Have fun!” –Amazon Customer

#3 The Best Oral Sex Ever: His Guide to Going Down

By Yvonne K. Fulbright, Ph.D.

Eating out has never been so hot. Sexologist Yvonne K. Fulbright exposes the facts and fantastic tricks oral sex aficionados live by in her brazen how-to for men. This guide gives you the tools you need to thrill her every night, including: making cunnilingus the evening's main course or the first stop in a night of multiple orgasms, techniques from the sacred "Flutter of the Butterfly" to modern Oral Sex Acrobatics, how to overcome any woman's oral sex hang-ups, and how to broach the subject of wanting to give her oral sex—even when it makes her nervous.

Packed with the most erotic ideas for pleasuring her, this men's manual will send you running for the covers.

One satisfied Amazon reader says: “This is a fun book, and even better if you have someone to practice on :-) I haven't completely finished it, but so far it's been very informative; a nice balance between being too clinical on the one hand, and too lewd / crude on the other.”

“Great book for learning some finer points to this subject! I learned a lot of new things and my wife benefited! Did talk about some things I already knew yet some might not.  I strongly recommend this manual because it does meet its purpose plus!” –Barnes & Noble Customer

Stephanie has long believed she is a gay man trapped in a woman's body. She is a lover of good food, good sex and good grammar. A recent transplant to Chicago, she spends her free time with her super-duper-fly boyfriend and their three "kids" (2 cats, 1 dog). She has a blog she writes in every so often. She's still trying to get the whole Twitter thing down, but you can follow her @Vanderfloozie. Want to get in touch with her? Email stephanie@getlusty.com.

Camille Crimson's Top 5 Ways to Lovingly Finish a Blowjob (NSFW)

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Quite a few men offline and online have asked this question. How can I get my partner to give me head? As usual, we're here to help. We understand asking your partner for a blowjob can be tricky. Most importantly, gentlemen, you don't want to appear to be a selfish lover. So for now, let's review the ways not to get a blowjob. GetLusty writer Crimson Love reports.

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#1 Don't be a selfish lover

If you are not willing to go down on your woman, don't even bother asking for a blowjob. Reciprocation is the best way to receive more love. Give and ye shall receive. Start enjoying cunnilingus. Ensuring that your lady comes first is the key to a great sex life. If she isn't orgasming (and you should know this by asking her, for example), how do you expect she's going to be extremely interested in your pleasure? She's worried about how she's going to be able to orgasm--not you! Not to worry, gents. We'll have more on selfish loving soon! And plenty of cunnilingus tips, too. Suffice to say, your goal should be her pleasure!

#2 Give positive feedback

As ladies, we don't enjoy hearing how horrible we are at giving head. Besides, how is that supposed to give me enthusiasm about going down on you? Don't tell her she should blow you because she needs the practice. That might get you a punch in the balls rather than get her to suck them. Instead, try telling her how much you enjoy feeling her mouth on your throbbing penis. That they've been waiting for her wonderful mouth. Tell her she makes you feel so amazing after you know she's been pleasured.

#3 Realize it's a privilege

Receiving head is a privilege. Not a right. So when you demand a blowjob as an expectation because, "that's what women do," you're very wrong. Be positive, and don't be demanding. When I say this, I mean don't act entitled like it's her life's mission to blow you all the time. Be patient. If you think that a blowjob should happen everyday--please tell your partner. Talk to her about it. Unless she's absolutely in love with giving you head, she should be aware of your issue.

#4 Don't compare your lady

If your lady isn't in the mood to give you a blowjob, don't compare her to your ex or an old fling. If you think it will inspire some sort of competition and make her want to do it, you're wrong. It won't and may likely do the opposite. Trying to trump up competition isn't a loving thing to do. Instead, try telling her how amazing it was the last time she did provide you that amazing pleasure of giving you an amazing blowjob. She's amazing! No one can please you like she can. That will get you much closer to getting a blowjob in the future.

#5 Don't coerce

Don't just force her head down there. I am pretty sure that if you do, you won't find her down there again any time soon. We women don't want to feel force or coercion. Why? Well, it provides negative associations moving forward. If she's experienced trauma in the past, you may be heading down a road of therapy--or even just long conversations about boundaries. Be nice and you will receive nice actions back.

#6 Don't get mad

If she refuses after your efforts just let it go and don't get mad. Instead try to figure out why she said no. Be empathetic. There is likely a good reason why your lady isn't feeling in the mood to go down on you. Maybe she has a negative association. Could you imagine being in her position? If she got mad at you for not going down on her? It'd feel pretty bad.

Keep sex amazing, gents! Be patient, nice and understanding. We'll respond with love and amazing head. If not now--soon!

This is a guest post by our very own Crimson Love.
Crimson is our resident BDSM fetish expert. If you don't see Crimson out dining with her adoring boyfriend, you'll find her reading books on innovation or finance. Crimson is currently finishing off her Bachelor's, she is passionate about food, photography, music and especially sex--and she's not afraid to talk about it. With everyone!

Have story ideas? Get in touch with Crimson Love at amber@getlusty.com.

Camille Crimson. She's been managing SlowMotionBlowjob.com and TheArtofBlowjob.com for some time now and has made some pretty hot films of herself doing just that. Camille is an advocate of amazing sexual relationships and pleasure in many forms. Camille is also the ultimate feminist pornographer. Who wouldn't want to know more about this gorgeous, smart and highly qualified star? We had a chat with Camille, and of course we had to share our findings. Learn more about Camille! Read on.

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How did you come to be an erotic model and blowjob expert?

I'm born and raised in Montreal and I'm still happy to be here. I'm a proud geek who is into coding, zombies, sci-fi and Macs. I also love making music with my voice, piano and guitar, painting, making and editing little movies, cooking, riding my motorcycle… I try to be well-rounded and make the most out of life, which is why I started making beautiful porn.

I have a background in web development and my wonderful long-term boyfriend has a background in photography and film, so we decided to combine our skills with our naturally passionate sex life to try to make the kind of porn we'd actually want to see. We started with more generally themed erotic photography on our first site (Dolorem.com), but when we decided we wanted to make the leap to video, we wanted to go into a niche. I've always loved blowjobs, but I have a much more sensual approach than what was typically available in porn. I wanted to see attention and respect for the blowjob, so what better way than to do it myself? Then, TheArtofBlowjob.com was born!

What are some of your favorite tips and tricks for giving amazing blowjobs?

My best advice is always about communication, creativity and passion. Everybody likes different sensation, so ask what your partner likes and make that kind of discussion part of your sexual experience. Don't just stick to the basics. Think of all the different combinations of his erogenous zones, the parts of yourself you can use, speeds, sensations. Then play around with all the options and see what works. Most importantly, find a reason to be enthusiastic. Giving pleasure is sexy, feeling skilled is hot, making your partner come is an amazing reward. Don't do it just because, find a reason to make it about you too.

What are some of the most unusual places you’ve given blowjobs?

I've had some great outdoor fun on beaches, in fields, even in a stream. There are lots of clandestine places where you can stop for a quick thrill, but being in nature is especially beautiful.

Some might see a blowjob as a one-sided sex act that the recipient enjoys but may not be so pleasant for giver. How would you recommend couples go about making blowjobs mutually enjoyable?

There are lots of ways! 69 is a clear way to ensure that everyone is getting stimulation. You can ask your partner to touch you while you give them a blowjob or you can touch yourself. Using toys is also very sexy and you can often have one inside or against you without needing to even use your hands. Beyond that, sometimes it's just a state of mind. Giving pleasure can be a real turn-on, especially when you know that your needs will be met and taken care of too.

Do you see blowjobs being given a bad rap in the porn world as being demeaning to the giver or just a lead up to sex? Can oral sex be just as sensual and intimate as actual vaginal sex in your opinion?

Of course. I think it's important to have a variety and to make sure that everyone is getting what they want, but there is absolutely no reason that a blowjob can't be a highly sensual and intimate part of a really great sex life.

What is the purpose behind making your videos very stylized and artistic?

We want to make something we'd actually want to watch. People watch films for style as well as content, so why shouldn't that extend to porn? It can be beautiful and there's no reason why it shouldn't be.

What’s the most liberating part of being nude for you? What would you recommend for women who want to feel more comfortable naked?

I think being in touch with your body is a lovely thing. I actually switch it up a lot on my site, often focusing on lingerie or cute outfits, so I'm probably not the poster woman for nudity… I think that embracing who you are and what you have is a wonderful way to enjoy your sexuality and become more free in how you seek pleasure. Sometime having that reward in mind can make it easier, I suppose.

Outside of blowjobs, what are some of your favorite romantic activities that you share with your boyfriend?

We love riding our motorcycles together. Having that kind of mutual pastime makes everything an adventure. Now that it's colder and it's starting to be more snowy, we love going on little walks and then warming up with a great meal and then some intimate time together, of course.

What’s coming up for you in the next 6-12 months?

I have a few big projects on the horizon, but none I can share just yet. Stay tuned!

More about Camille

Camille Crimson specializes in sexuality, feminism, oral sex, and creating and marketing beautiful porn. Her websites The Art of the Blowjob and Slow Motion Blowjob are full of exquisite photo and video shoots that showcase "the subversive yet natural subject we all love: sex". On top of being a versatile business woman, Camille plays guitar, loves horror movies, and has recently gotten into motorcycles. Follow Camille on Twitter @CamilleCrimson and on Facebook.